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I am the Anti-Bullying Specialist for Schirra. Bullying has taken on a new meaning since New Jersey passed the anti-bullying law. It is important that we help children understand the difference between bullying and conflict.

  Bullying is:

• Any gesture, written, verbal or physical act or electronic communication

• Can be a single or series of incidents

• Imbalance of power, one-sided

• Based on actual or perceived characteristics

  • Ex: race, religion, gender, disability

• Occurs on school property, at any school-sponsored event, school bus or off school grounds if it meets the following

  • Must cause substantial disruption or interference in school or of student rights

  • Physical or emotional harm to student or damage to student property

  • Student in fear of harm to self or property

  • Creates a hostile learning environment

  Conflict is:

• Balance of power

• Each person has an equal power in solving the conflict

• Not intentionally trying to hurt each other

By understanding the situation, we can effectively and appropriately try to come to a resolution.

District and School HIB Self-Assessment Scores

Schools are required to complete a self-assessment regarding their HIB programs, responses and trainings. For more information visit the district site at their HIB Self-Assessment Score Page

Important Contact Information:

Mrs. Kristen Todd-Matos
School Counselor
Anti-Bullying Specialist
732-360-4595
ktoddmatos@obps.org

Dr. Kathleen Hoeker
Anti-Bullying Coordinator
732-290-3970
Email Contact information:
khoeker@obps.org