Harassment, Intimidation and Bullying

The Old Bridge Board of Education prohibits acts of harassment, intimidation, or bullying of a student. A safe and civil environment in school is necessary for students to learn and achieve high academic standards. Harassment, intimidation, or bullying, like other disruptive or violent behaviors, is conduct that disrupts both a student’s ability to learn and a school’s ability to educate its students in a safe and disciplined environment. Harassment, intimidation, or bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior that may involve a real or perceived power imbalance. Since students learn by example, school administrators, faculty, staff and volunteers should be commended for demonstrating appropriate behavior, treating others with civility and respect, and refusing to tolerate harassment, intimidation, or bullying.

Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying Definition

“Harassment, intimidation, or bullying” means any gesture, any written, verbal or physical act, or any electronic communication, as defined in N.J.S.A. 18A:37-14, whether it be a single incident or a series of incidents that:

  1. Is reasonably perceived as being motivated by either any actual or perceived characteristic, such as race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, or a mental, physical or sensory disability, or by any other distinguishing characteristic;

  2. Takes place on school property, at any school-sponsored function, on a school bus, or off school grounds, as provided for in N.J.S.A. 18A:37- 15.3;

  3. Substantially disrupts or interferes with the orderly operation of the school or the rights of other students; and that

    • A reasonable person should know, under the circumstances, that the act(s) will have the effect of physically or emotionally harming a student or damaging the student’s property, or placing a student in reasonable fear of physical or emotional harm to their person or damage to their property; or 

    • Has the effect of insulting or demeaning any student or group of students; or 

    • Creates a hostile educational environment for the student by interfering with a student’s education or by severely or pervasively causing physical or emotional harm to the student.

Are all conflicts bullying?

Conflicts at school will occur. However, conflict and bullying are very different. Conflict is considered mutual, meaning all participants play some part in initiating, continuing or engaging in the disagreement. Bullying, on the other hand, is one-sided. There is no mutual participation in the actions. It may or may not involve several people. Although not all incidents will fall under the definition of HIB this does not mean that the situation will not be dealt with appropriately. All conduct infractions are subject to Code of Student Conduct. Conflict vs. Bullying Presentation

What should a parent do if they believe their child is being bullied?

If you suspect that your child is being bullied at school, report the matter to school officials, fill out a HIB complaint and assure your child that school personnel will assist in helping to resolve the problem.

How is an incident of HIB substantiated?

Any gesture, any written, verbal or physical act, or any electronic communication, whether it be a single incident or a series of incidents, that is reasonably perceived as being motivated either by any actual or perceived characteristic, such as race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, or a mental, physical or sensory disability, or by any other distinguishing characteristic, that takes place on school property, at any school-sponsored function, on a school bus, or off school grounds that substantially disrupts or interferes with the orderly operation of the school or the rights of other students and that:

  • A reasonable person should know, under the circumstances, will have the effect of physically or emotionally harming a student or damaging the student’s property, or placing a student in reasonable fear of physical or emotional harm to his person or damage to his property;


  • Has the effect of insulting or demeaning any student or group of students; or

  • Creates a hostile educational environment for the student by interfering with a student’s education or by severely or pervasively causing physical or emotional harm to the student.

What are the requirements for addressing HIB that occurs off school grounds?

School districts are responsible for addressing HIB that occurs off school grounds when a school employee is made aware of the HIB, and the HIB substantially disrupts or interferes with the orderly operation of the school or the rights of other students. The responses to HIB that occurs off school grounds shall be consistent with the BOE’s code of student conduct, and with other provisions of the BOE’s HIB policy.

If an incident is determined not to be HIB, does that mean that the school won’t look into the matter?

NO. Many incidents that do not fall under the law’s definition will violate the School’s Code of Conduct. In such a case, consequences will be imposed even before an HIB investigation is initiated.

ANTI-BULLYING COORDINATOR:

Kathleen Hoeker, Ed.D.
Patrick A. Torre Administration Building
4207 Route 516, Matawan, NJ 07747
732-290-3970
khoeker@obps.org

SCHOOL CLIMATE STATE COORDINATOR:

HIB@doe.nj.gov

Need to speak with a counselor about a bullying problem?

ELEMENTARY SCHOOL CONTACTS:

GUIDANCE COUNSELOR

SCHOOL

PHONE NUMBER/EMAIL ADDRESS

Dan Sullivan

M. Scott Carpenter School
1 Par Avenue
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-3015
dsullivan@obps.org

Danielle Donatelli

Leroy Gordon Cooper School
160 Birchwood Drive
Cliffwood Beach, NJ 07735

732-290-3884
ddonatelli@obps.org

Jessica Tranchina

Virgil I. Grissom School
1 Sims Avenue
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-720-6360
jtranchina@obps.org

Amy Najarian

Madison Park School
33 Harvard Road
Parlin, NJ 08859

732-360-4456
ksautner@obps.org

Phyllis Bloom

James A. McDivitt School
1 Manny Martin Way
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-4516
pbloom@obps.org

Kim Sautner

Memorial School
11 Ely Avenue
Laurence Harbor, NJ 08879

732-765-1602
ksautner@obps.org

Frankie Johnson

William A. Miller School
2 Old Matawan Road
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-4590
fjohnson@obps.org

Kristen Todd

Walter M. Schirra School
1 Awn Street
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-4595
ktodd@obps.org

Jean Czarkowski

Alan B. Shepard School
33 Bushnell Road
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-3038
jczarkowski@obps.org

Jennifer Collins

Southwood School
64 Southwood Drive
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-1232
jcollins@obps.org

Lauren Piserchia
Rebecca Budrecki

Raymond E. Voorhees School
11 Liberty Street
Old Bridge, NJ 08857

732-360-4596
lpiserchia@obps.org
rbudrecki@obps.org

MIDDLE SCHOOL CONTACTS:

Jonas Salk Middle School
155 West Greystone Road
Old Bridge, NJ 08857
Rose Borstein-Bedoya - JSMS Anti-Bullying Specialist and SAC 732-360-3036- rbornstein-bedoya@obps.org

Carl Sandburg Middle School
3439 Route 516
Old Bridge, NJ 08857
Cassandra Mercuri - CSMS Anti-Bullying Specialist and SAC 732-360-1313 - cmercuri@obps.org

HIGH SCHOOL CONTACTS:

Old Bridge High School (Main Building)
4209 Route 516
Matawan, NJ 07747
Renee Galdieri - OBHS Anti-Bullying Specialist and SAC 732-290-3900 Ext: 3990- rgaldieri@obps.org
Robert Waitt - OBHS SAC Counselor 732-290-3900 Ext: 3850- rwaitt@obps.org

Ellen McDermott Grade 9 Center
4205 Route 516
Matawan, NJ 07747
Jennifer McCann - GNC Anti-Bullying Specialist and SAC 732-290-3900 Ext: 3893- jmccann@obps.org